So I've been thinking lately, this whole becoming a DJ thing for now it might just be about me getting laid and having some fun. However down the road I do intend on getting married. Because of this my wife is going to need and expect some things from me. As a result, I need to work on some character things so I will be able to provide for a wife, kids my own personal interests as well as any other family members who run into difficulties.
Things my wife will need from me
1) Be a man. If I want to find a good wife (one that I find attractive and improves my life as well as my family's) I need to be a man. This means not sitting around waiting for things to happen. This means taking action, and making things happen. It means accepting responsibility when I screw up and dealing with the problems I create. It also means having basic knowledge and manners. I might write a whole post about what being a man means to me
2) Financial freedom. My wife will need a man who can provide money with a good job. I don't believe a woman looking for a man with money is "gold digging" I feel like its a psychological reaction. She wants a person who can put her children in the safest environment where they can grow healthy and strong. Where is a child safer, in a nice neighboorhood
Things my wife will need from me
1) Be a man. If I want to find a good wife (one that I find attractive and improves my life as well as my family's) I need to be a man. This means not sitting around waiting for things to happen. This means taking action, and making things happen. It means accepting responsibility when I screw up and dealing with the problems I create. It also means having basic knowledge and manners. I might write a whole post about what being a man means to me
2) Financial freedom. My wife will need a man who can provide money with a good job. I don't believe a woman looking for a man with money is "gold digging" I feel like its a psychological reaction. She wants a person who can put her children in the safest environment where they can grow healthy and strong. Where is a child safer, in a nice neighboorhood